Age-Appropriate Chores List: Tidying Habits for 5- and 8-Year-Olds
The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) says children aged 5–7 can make their beds, set and clear the table, tidy toys and empty wastebaskets, and children aged 8–10 can also vacuum, make snacks and put away their own laundry. Children's Hospital of Philadelphia (CHOP) recommends 10–20 minutes of chores a day for school-age kids and praising effort over results.
What are the benefits of giving kids chores?
The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) says age-appropriate chores are an important part of a child's development, and that helping with chores boosts a child's self-esteem. Children's Hospital of Philadelphia (CHOP) also explains that chores help children grow into responsible adults.
Which chores can kids do at each age?
| Age | Chores they can do | Basis |
|---|---|---|
| Ages 3–4 | Put toys away, set the table, dust, put clothes in the laundry basket | CHOP |
| Ages 5–7 | Make the bed, set and clear the table, tidy toys and bookshelves, empty wastebaskets, sweep the floor, water plants | AAP |
| Ages 8–10 | All of the above + vacuum, help make dinner, make snacks, walk the pet, put away their own laundry and groceries | AAP |
CHOP says that for school-age children, about 10–20 minutes a day of helping with chores is appropriate.
How do you make tidying a lasting habit?
- Praise effort over results: The AAP advises praising effort, not results. Even if the bed isn't perfectly made, first notice that your child did it on their own.
- Don't redo it: CHOP advises parents not to redo what the child has done. That's how a child's confidence grows.
- Say thank you: CHOP advises always expressing thanks for your child's help.
- Make it visible with a checklist: The AAP says chore charts and checklists serve as visual reminders that help the whole family remember their tasks.
- Make it part of the routine: The AAP says building structure and routines into family life makes it easier for kids to remember their chores.
Frequently asked questions
What chores are good for a 5-year-old?
Children's Hospital of Philadelphia (CHOP) gives examples for ages 5–6 such as making the bed, feeding pets (with adult supervision), clearing their own dishes after meals and emptying wastebaskets. The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) also includes tidying toys and bookshelves and setting the table in its list for ages 5–7.
Should I give pocket money or rewards for chores?
Official organizations emphasize the value of chores themselves and praise for effort. The AAP advises praising effort over results, and doing so honestly. If you use rewards, it's best not to take back rewards already given (CDC).
If I don't like how my child tidied up, can I redo it?
CHOP advises not redoing what your child has done. That's how your child can build confidence.
References
This article provides general parenting information based on materials from official organizations and does not replace diagnosis or treatment. If you're concerned about your child's health or development, consult a specialist such as a pediatrician or pediatric dentist.
